When I grow up

"But be careful what you wish for
'cause you might just get it
You just might get it
You just might get it"
(When I grow up lyric)

Little did you realize that time flies so fast. The last time you remembered that you were just a little kid, young and naive, curious with the world which is full of wonders. But now, you've grown up, to be an adult, with responsibilities and thoughts, living in the life of causes and consequences.

And sometimes, you just wish to turn back...

I still remembered last time when I was a little girl, I always wonder how is it like when I grow up? I can't wait to be a big girl myself, so that I can do things on my own and get all the things that I want. And now, with responsibilities that I have to hold on to, sometimes, I wish I was just a little girl back then.

Sometimes, life isn't just as pretty as it looks like. You have to work hard most of the time. Being a big girl myself, sometimes I feel like crying each and everytime I punch out, leading myself to the car, with stuffs in the hands. Everyday is just the same day, day till night, it's all about work. Then, the flashback of the good old days came dancing in the head and followed by a long sigh.

I guess, the same thing happens to most of us too.

But, responsibility is just something that you couldn't run away from.

And that's how it goes.

You'll never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have left.......~unknown~

...and I guess, that's just the price that you've gotta pay...

Ignorance is a bliss

Sometimes, people just choose to ignore and forget things that they are not comfortable with. Some people just have the I-dun-give-a-damn attitude written on their heads in response to the things that they don't like, while, some just chose to be like most common ignorant people, totally ignore with I-dunno answer each and everytime they're being asked.

In whatever way, I think they just agreed that "ignorance is somehow a bliss".

I remembered a lecturer of mine once asked;

If you're given a situation where you bumped to your best friend's husband, and he wasn't actually with the wife which is your best friend. To you they looked so closed not even like just-a-friend. You know that your best friend are doing good with the husband. He gave enough of everything to her, he fulfilled all her needs. They're just perfect and you wouldn't want to believe with what you just saw. What would you do? Instantly call your best friend, tell her the whole truth and risking that both of them might have a fight or separate...or.. you ignore what you just saw..You might not like what you just saw, but at least you know that both of them are happily married, with cute kids, nice house, nice cars..so, why bother?




During the class, some actually chose the first one, while some chose the latter and I believe whatever choices they made, they have their own rationale to support their answers.

But what if the same thing happens to you?
Would you choose to argue and separate?
Or just ignore and pretend nothing ever happened?
Ever?

I love it when you smile

Why do i love it when you smile?

I love it because it makes you look so cute and sweet.
I love it because it somehow comforts me.
I love it because it's a sign that you are not mad at me.
I love it because it shows that you like what I just said.
I love it because I just love it,
And I just love it when you smile..

Yes, smile..

So people, why is it hard to smile?

Relationships are...???

"Relationships are messy, people's feelings tend to get hurt... who needs that?"

Suri told Mia as she quoted from the movie that they both watched, '500 Days of Summer'.

"Mia, we don't need 'relationships'. They are all messy. We just need someone to get married. Like... a future husband..."

Well, Suri got a point there. She's a one tough big girl. Perhaps what she had gone through has made her to think in such way. Unlike Suri, Mia is a 'cry-baby'. When things go wrong, she'll become weak and fragile. Thus, she needs to be with someone who can take a good care of her.

The point here is, are relationships messy?

1. Yes if they give you so much troubles until you couldn't eat, couldn't do your work or affect your life, so they are messy.

2. No if they give you strength, encouragement and inspiration for you to go on in your life.


Whatever it is, you might have your own opinion about relationship, rite?

Choice is yours!