Relationships are...???

"Relationships are messy, people's feelings tend to get hurt... who needs that?"

Suri told Mia as she quoted from the movie that they both watched, '500 Days of Summer'.

"Mia, we don't need 'relationships'. They are all messy. We just need someone to get married. Like... a future husband..."

Well, Suri got a point there. She's a one tough big girl. Perhaps what she had gone through has made her to think in such way. Unlike Suri, Mia is a 'cry-baby'. When things go wrong, she'll become weak and fragile. Thus, she needs to be with someone who can take a good care of her.

The point here is, are relationships messy?

1. Yes if they give you so much troubles until you couldn't eat, couldn't do your work or affect your life, so they are messy.

2. No if they give you strength, encouragement and inspiration for you to go on in your life.


Whatever it is, you might have your own opinion about relationship, rite?

Choice is yours!

What are you looking for?

Situation 1:
A: I just broke up.
B: Ohw, I'm sorry. Don't worry, you'll find someone better.
A: I don't know why it all didn't work.
B: What kind of girl/ guy are you looking for?

Yes, what are you looking for?
Are you looking for someone who is good looking?
Are you looking for someone who has lots of money?
Are you looking for someone who drives nice car?
Are you looking for someone who can make you laugh?

Well, no matter what your answer is, there's no right or wrong answer. Suits yourself. But, if you ask me, I would go for the latter.

"Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth, even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seems bright"

In regards the situation above, A just broke up though he tried his best to save the relationship. Perhaps this isn't the first time of his relationship failure because B is calm when responding to A. And the next best thing is, B come out with a question "What kind of girl/ guy are you looking for?"

Yes, in order for you to get something, you must know what you want first. But in order for you to get the right girl/ guy, you must know what you need first. Yes, need because there's difference between 'want' and 'need'.

When a relationship ends, look at it positively. Perhaps he/ she is not the right one for you. Perhaps you need someone who can give you more. Perhaps you need someone who can treat you better.Perhaps you need someone who suits you best.

Or perhaps, the one for you is right there in front of you but you just weren't looking... you didn't notice and you didn't realize it. But that someone is there whenever you need someone to talk to, someone to believe you, someone to comfort you...So, look back.

But sometimes, it depends on luck. Forget about the looks, forget about the money...or forget about what had happened.. So here, you cannot look at anywhere but feel it with your heart.. Yes, that little voice of yours..

And there are also time when you are just not sure of what you want and what you need... but don't worry, because HE will answer your prayer...if only...only you would have just asked...

Life at the roundabout

"I'm confused"
"Yes you always are"
"I'm sad. I keep on meeting the wrong person"
"That's because you keep on driving at the same roundabout"


Yes, roundabout. What does a roundabout mean to you? Well, if you're driving, and you see a roundabout, what would you do? 9 o'clock? 12 o'clock? 3 o'clock? Or you just go around the roundabout?

Well, if you know where you're heading, you'll definitely know which way you are going to take, whether to take the 9 o'clock, 12 o'clock or the 3 o'clock. But, if you don't know where you are going, that makes you to drive at the same roundabout!

Let say, you know where you want to go, but you are not sure which way to take. Will you be able to reach your desired destination? Hm, maybe you can follow the signboards, but what if there are no signboards? Will you be able to find your way? Well, maybe you can just try out any of the way, 9 o'clock, 12 o'clock or the 3 o'clock. Soon, you'll figure out the right way to your destination. Or maybe you could stop by at the road side later and ask around which way to go. But if you keep on driving at the same roundabout, do you think that you'll find your way?

Let's face it. Life is a journey. Along the way, you'll see bumps, corners, roundabouts, junctions and even traffic lights. When you see bumps and corners, slow down. When there is a roundabout or junction, take the way that'll bring you to your destination. When there's a traffic light, stop when it is red. When the road is straight, speed up to 110km/h. So what if you do not follow the following rules? You hit the red light, you speed up until 180km/h, you do not slow down when there are bumpers? You keep on driving at the roundabout before you could decide which way to go?

You've just put yourself into trouble.

Life is like that. There are rules in life. And it's always risky when the rules are broken.