What are you looking for?

Situation 1:
A: I just broke up.
B: Ohw, I'm sorry. Don't worry, you'll find someone better.
A: I don't know why it all didn't work.
B: What kind of girl/ guy are you looking for?

Yes, what are you looking for?
Are you looking for someone who is good looking?
Are you looking for someone who has lots of money?
Are you looking for someone who drives nice car?
Are you looking for someone who can make you laugh?

Well, no matter what your answer is, there's no right or wrong answer. Suits yourself. But, if you ask me, I would go for the latter.

"Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth, even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seems bright"

In regards the situation above, A just broke up though he tried his best to save the relationship. Perhaps this isn't the first time of his relationship failure because B is calm when responding to A. And the next best thing is, B come out with a question "What kind of girl/ guy are you looking for?"

Yes, in order for you to get something, you must know what you want first. But in order for you to get the right girl/ guy, you must know what you need first. Yes, need because there's difference between 'want' and 'need'.

When a relationship ends, look at it positively. Perhaps he/ she is not the right one for you. Perhaps you need someone who can give you more. Perhaps you need someone who can treat you better.Perhaps you need someone who suits you best.

Or perhaps, the one for you is right there in front of you but you just weren't looking... you didn't notice and you didn't realize it. But that someone is there whenever you need someone to talk to, someone to believe you, someone to comfort you...So, look back.

But sometimes, it depends on luck. Forget about the looks, forget about the money...or forget about what had happened.. So here, you cannot look at anywhere but feel it with your heart.. Yes, that little voice of yours..

And there are also time when you are just not sure of what you want and what you need... but don't worry, because HE will answer your prayer...if only...only you would have just asked...