Monday, December 20, 2010

I am happy, still

"I'm happy for you."
"Thank you. I hope you'll find someone soon."
Silence.
"How would I know if he is the right one for me?"
"Soon you'll know when you meet him."
Hugs.

Stepping yourself into twenties has made you realize that time flies so fast. You're gonna miss those moments when you hang out with your friends, go shopping with your girlfriends, chit-chatting in the class during the lecture, staying up whole night with your partner to finish up your assignments and all the best things you had.

Little did you realize, things had changed a lot. Most of your friends are engaged or even marriage while some are already in a stable relationship. If you are still single, perhaps you'll feel a bit stress up for still not having someone special while almost everybody around you does. If you're already in a relationship, perhaps you'd feel more alone as you found out most of your friends are already married, having babies while your partner is busy with his jobs and so on. How about those who are already married? I bet being a mom in twenties is never easy. Perhaps you would be wondering yourself how does it feels if you're still single, having fun with your friends, hanging out and shopping.

Well, whatever status you are now, just enjoy the ride. =D

Life is like a masterpiece. Each and every paint differs to one another. The beauty of the life itself may also differ. It is very subjective to say that "your life is more beautiful than mine" and "my life is more beautiful than yours".Maybe you were granted to have a wonderful life when you were a kid, but once you grew up, life has never been easy for you. Maybe God has given you everything that you need in this life, with good education, good job, good family but still you can't find a good partner of your life. Maybe you're just comfortable of being in an average life, with little family, little income, little house, little car and you're just happy with that.

Whatever it is, be grateful for every bits and pieces that God has given us is to show His love to us. Be grateful for you're still breathing. Be grateful for you are granted with a good health. Be grateful that you are pretty (well yes, nobody's ugly =D ). Be grateful that you still have people who love and care for you. Be grateful and just be grateful...

But being grateful doesn't mean that you can just sit there doing nothing. Keep on trying to find your true happiness. Have passion to fall in love again. Find a hobby perhaps. Enjoy what you love to do. Surround yourself with beautiful things that you love. Surround yourself with positive people.

LOVE yourself and LOVE others =D


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