Be the water

Yes, water.

Why do we use water to take our bath?
Why do we need to drink a lot of water everyday?
Why do we feel so calm when listening to the sound of water flows?
Why do we use water to put out the fire?(literally)

Well, water is a natural healer that relaxes and calms you. When you are stress, try to take a bath, and you'll feel more relaxed and calm after that. Even the sounds of water could also sooth your uneasy feelings. Water gives you a kind of therapy to put your stress away. Even for some people use water to cure diseases as an alternative. The benefits of water are undoubted. But, what is has to do with fire?

Often people say,

"Fire with fire will burst out the flames. But be the water."
(direct translation from Bahasa =D )


So, when someone is on fire, be the water...

Goodbye

By the time I'm typing this, it is only few hours left to 2011.. Little did we realize that time has taken its toll over time.. Glimpsing back, there had been many incidents so as accidents that perhaps you could not even recall because there's just too many things happened to you through out the year..Not to forget those things that you may refuse to remember which had left yourself to bear a huge scar deep inside in a way..

Whether this year had been a lucky or a fall out year to you, what crucial most is, it should be a stepping stone for you to move steps ahead towards a better you..


"Let bygone be bygone"
Sometimes, life is so beautiful but sometimes, life turned out to be the opposite of what we've expected it to be. Whatever happened, life goes on. Leave the past and move forward. Have faith that things happened for reasons. Sometimes, when things turned out to be bad, it's actually not that bad at all. Look at the bright side and learn from what you've gone through. Remember, bits and pieces that you've experienced had actually made you a unique person.

"Forgive"
Many times in life, we'd do the wrong things. Of course, nobody's perfect. But, taking yourself towards the right things is good enough. Thus, before you could move any further, start forgiving. Forgive yourself and forgive others. Open up your heart, and the world will open up for you.

"Don't judge, help instead"
Life is a long struggle. Each and every one of us has our own life-struggle. Thus, do not judge people because you yourself might also struggling with your own life-long struggle. You wouldn't know what they have been struggling even if you've walked one mile in their shoes, and so are they. But, it is our duty to help each other with our struggle.

"Be responsible"
Responsibility is something that you cannot run away from. You are responsible as a daughter, as a brother or sister, as a friend, as a husband or wife. You're also responsible in your studies, in your work. But what important most is, you're responsible as His creation and there's no way for you to 'disconnect' yourself from Him.

"Don't hate, accept others"
Again, nobody's perfect. But what important most is how to look beyond the imperfections. Each of us has our own strengths and flaws. Thus, do not hate but accept people as they are. Sometimes, there are times when you could not help it, so isolate yourself. Take your time to reconcile.

"Be positive and smile"
Life is like a cycle. Sometimes you're on top, sometimes, you'd thrown to the bottom of the cycle. Be positive that you could work things out in future. Have faith that you could make it all better. Smile more often, and put all the stresses away.

The choice is yours.



Goodbye 2010..

A chapter is closed, another is beginning...

I am happy, still

"I'm happy for you."
"Thank you. I hope you'll find someone soon."
Silence.
"How would I know if he is the right one for me?"
"Soon you'll know when you meet him."
Hugs.

Stepping yourself into twenties has made you realize that time flies so fast. You're gonna miss those moments when you hang out with your friends, go shopping with your girlfriends, chit-chatting in the class during the lecture, staying up whole night with your partner to finish up your assignments and all the best things you had.

Little did you realize, things had changed a lot. Most of your friends are engaged or even marriage while some are already in a stable relationship. If you are still single, perhaps you'll feel a bit stress up for still not having someone special while almost everybody around you does. If you're already in a relationship, perhaps you'd feel more alone as you found out most of your friends are already married, having babies while your partner is busy with his jobs and so on. How about those who are already married? I bet being a mom in twenties is never easy. Perhaps you would be wondering yourself how does it feels if you're still single, having fun with your friends, hanging out and shopping.

Well, whatever status you are now, just enjoy the ride. =D

Life is like a masterpiece. Each and every paint differs to one another. The beauty of the life itself may also differ. It is very subjective to say that "your life is more beautiful than mine" and "my life is more beautiful than yours".Maybe you were granted to have a wonderful life when you were a kid, but once you grew up, life has never been easy for you. Maybe God has given you everything that you need in this life, with good education, good job, good family but still you can't find a good partner of your life. Maybe you're just comfortable of being in an average life, with little family, little income, little house, little car and you're just happy with that.

Whatever it is, be grateful for every bits and pieces that God has given us is to show His love to us. Be grateful for you're still breathing. Be grateful for you are granted with a good health. Be grateful that you are pretty (well yes, nobody's ugly =D ). Be grateful that you still have people who love and care for you. Be grateful and just be grateful...

But being grateful doesn't mean that you can just sit there doing nothing. Keep on trying to find your true happiness. Have passion to fall in love again. Find a hobby perhaps. Enjoy what you love to do. Surround yourself with beautiful things that you love. Surround yourself with positive people.

LOVE yourself and LOVE others =D

The art of Forgiving

"To forgive and forget, rules to a happy life"

Often we heard such line intentionally to comfort somebody's grudge. Even sometimes it's been said to us whenever we were in anger or hatred due to hypocrisy, backstabbing, betrayal or any controversial affairs that irk us. But the point is, is it true that you can live happily by forgiving and forgetting someone's flaws to you?

Well, let's get the picture here.

Your boyfriend/ girlfriend cheated you. Your circle of friends think what he/she had done to you was so unforgivable. Thus, you feel like you cannot even forgive him/her. So every morning you wake up, you remember what he/she had done to you and you curse him/her. Before you go to bed, when you feel sad and alone, you remember what he/she had done to you and you curse him/her. What about in between that? When you go out and you saw a couple crossing the road, you remember again and you curse him/her. You go to the petrol pump and you saw a couple in a car in front of you. The guy walks to the counter while the girl touching-up in the car. Then, you remember what had happened and you curse him/her again. Wow, in ten to eleven days, he/she would totally got cursed by you!

But then, do you feel better?
Even if you think that you'd feel better, the feeling won't last long because you'll feel the burden soon after. Yes, the burden of revenge and grudge that you're carrying with you. And it'll get heavier day after day.

Why can't you just let it go?
Let it go. Let bygone be bygone. When it comes to the point of letting go, yes, it's never get easy. But, that's just the best thing to do.

"To err is human", who are we to judge?

Try to open up your heart...and...forgive.. No matter what happened, life goes on. Don't let the past holds you back. You'll feel less burden when you forgive people. Yes, even for bits and pieces deed, let's just forgive. Embrace yourself with love. Love yourself and love the others. You'll feel much happier then. =D

Don't be sad

"Doctor, why did the pimples come out?"
"Ohw, that is because you are stressed. Hm, are you stressed?"

Ohw, am I stressed? I asked myself. I just laughed.

Well, there are time when we would feel so stressed up with workloads, personal things or even some issues related to our life. Who said that life has to be perfect? Let's face it. Life has its ups and downs. So as your love life, it has its hot and cold moments. But, no matter how hard life is, life goes on. Don't be sad...

As for me, I believe that things happen for reasons. Sometimes, things fall apart for better things to fall together. Sometimes, things go wrong but miracles could happen when you least expect it. Have faith that you will find your happiness someday. Be positive for obstacles are just a part and parcel of life. Nobody can run away from that fact. But, be grateful instead, for what you are going and have gone through, you are not alone.

Look around you and you'll be surprised that there are still many people who love and care about you. Just remember, when sadness come, it is not the end of the world yet. Nobody knows what the future holds for you. Maybe there'll be a rainbow after the rain. Maybe there's a light at the end of the tunnel. Just keep on going, keep on moving. Yes, it takes a lot of courage, but soon you'll know and you'll thank God for giving you the strength, you'll thank God for not giving up..


Love yourself and spread the love. xoxo

Ohw you're 24

Well, I remembered last time when I turned to 24. Being 24 is like a statement to me. I started to worry about so much things in life. For most girl out there, 24 seems to be a new phase of life. Yes, by 24, probably you had already finished studying or maybe still struggling for your final year as an undergraduate, started worrying to look for your life partner, wondering what the world outside holds for you after you have left your student's life and so much more.

"Age is just a number!"

A very common phrase from my friends when I was caught by them worrying about myself turning 24. But I guess, it means a lot to me.

"Ohw, you're 24? Hmm, still young..."

Another common respond that i received from most people that I have talked to or some new friends that I met. What does that supposed to mean? Do I look older than my look? Not to brag, but there are some who claimed that I'm 19 when they first saw me...even some of my parents' friends said that me and my 20 years old sister are twins..=D

But now, I should say that it doesn't matter of what your age is. But, what most important is how you carry yourself . The life is in you hand, it is you yourself who shape your life. Whether you are 24 or 42, don't feel shy and feel confident about yourself. Mix around and you will be surprised that you'll learn more about life and see more perspective of it. Every individual is unique and each and every of them carries their own stories. Open up your heart and the world will open up for you.



xoxo

You are what you eat

"OMG! I am fat already!"

I guess this is the very common phrase that we will hear from our girlfriends or... boyfriends...even from ourselves when we had mistakenly ate a lot, more than what we normally eat everyday..Yes it is undeniable that there are time where we are emotionally unstable and we tend to take big portion of foods, or when we feel like doing nothing at home but caught ourselves snacking junkies on the couch, or maybe we thought that there's just so much food on the table when nobody's going to eat them but you...

Simple theory that I always keep in my mind...eat what you are going to burn...

So, why worrying yourself being fat? If you think that you have mistakenly ate more foods than your body need...go and work-out...not only you can sweat, but it also releases all your stresses...There's nothing wrong of eating carbs and fats...but bear this in mind, "anything that is too much is bad"...so stop feeling guilty but eat accordingly...

Happy dieting!! *wink*