She was a bulimic

This is the true story of a 'bulimic'.

Linda (not her real name) was a "happy-go-lucky" girl. She never worries of putting on weight as she would always go jogging if she feels that she had gained few pounds. One day her boyfriend told her that she looks fat and he wanted her to lose few kilos in 3 months. Her friends were all disagreed with her boyfriend as they told her that she is in a good shape already. But being a girl of course she would rather listen to her boyfriend for she loves her boyfriend very much.

First, she tried to control her food intake. But there were time that she would eat a lot especially when she's out with her friends. Then, she started to throw out because she desperately want to lose weight for the sake of her boyfriend. She would throw out everytime she eats and that makes her to lose few kilos within 3 months. But still, her boyfriend keeps on complaining about her looks, her everything from head to toe. It took months to years for her to realize that she'd been wasting her time trying to satisfy her boyfriend but the fact that he never appreciate what she had done for him. So, she finally left him. And guess what? She is now happy with her man who appreciates each and single inch of hers.

Many might think that she had done a big mistake for taking so long to realize that. Well, maybe it's true when I heard people say, "love is not blind, but love has made us blind". To Linda, I'm glad that she got over it.

Well, I believe that there are women out there who are very conscious about their looks. Trust me, no matter what shape you have, "you are amazing just the way you are". Don't sacrifice things for someone who are not worth for it. If he is meant for you, he will accept you just the way you are. Well, yeah, forget about the bits and pieces of flaws that you maybe have grown up with. But believe me, "acceptance is the golden key to a happy relationship". Nobody's perfect. What most important is for you to look beyond the imperfection. Cherish the love and appreciate your loved ones...


LOVE YOURSELF AND SPREAD THE LOVE xoxo